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Anger, Shame & Hope
A mish-mash of what goes on inside my #busybrain. Welcome to a space I’ve created to befriend my anger and shame. All in the hope of living a life of joy and pleasure.
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React with strength.
A part having a strong reaction is not always a sign of needing to be healed.
What? Roselle you’re going to upset a lot of people.
Oh well.
This needs to be said.
“I can protect you from this”
I’m not going to go out of my way to get her in faster. But I will sit here patiently. I will watch as she approaches.
And when she is close enough to hear me I will invite her to sit.
She is welcome.
Although I do much prefer when she comes through the front door - I can see that coming. She scares the bejesus out of me when she comes in the back door.
But she is welcome.
We can sit for a while.
It’s like a wall.
You don’t want to talk - and I respect that. I just want to say I can see you. I see you trying. I know you’re looking out for me. Come sit beside me and keep watch.
“We both grew up in families where no one asked directly for what they wanted or needed. We learned to use manipulation and indirectness to get others to give us what we wanted.”