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Anger, Shame & Hope

A mish-mash of what goes on inside my #busybrain. Welcome to a space I’ve created to befriend my anger and shame. All in the hope of living a life of joy and pleasure.

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Is there always something?

Is there always something?

I made the commitment to write and be in touch with my parts for 30 days.

I haven’t done it.

I still only turn to this when the feelings are running hot. When the intensity is turned up on high.

It’s a valid strategy for me. It works.

And it goes against the wisdom - that we should only connect when there is a desire to

OMG THIS CAN FUCK RIGHT OFF

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